PreMarital Sex Therapy

Sex Therapy

One of the topics we can discuss in our sessions together is the role of affection, intimacy, sex, sensuality and eroticism in your upcoming marriage. Each is a petal on the beautiful flower that is your private connection.

This includes what you need, what you like, how you like it, and what you definitely do not want in the bedroom.

Are you and your fiancé on the same page about this? Does your communication flow without inhibited embarrassment? People generally commit to a relationship with someone that they are, among other thing, sexually attracted to. It's that desire to get close, feel safe and reciprocated that draws us to one person over another. Chemistry is primal and doesn't stay fed by superficial things.

In PreMarital Counseling we can discuss this, if you like. I understand the sensitivity of this topic and treat it with the discretion, delicacy and the honesty that it deserves.

Pleasure, yours... mine... ours...

If you're planning to marry you are looking at the chance for a lengthy, fulfilling time together. It's good to protect and grow your intimate times.

Does your intimate life need a reboot, an upgrade or an entirely new lane? We would start first with your communication, how you signal desire and receptivity. We would see what emotional baggage is blocking the movement of affectionate energy. We would open up channels of understanding.

Things to think about

Timing

Mood...tender, loving, spicy, kink, fierce, frisky, adventurous, slow jam?

Frequency

Style and power distribution

Needs, wants and communication

Getting in sync

Possibilities

Sometimes the strain of managing a steady life or the residue from a past hurt drain out that part of your brain. You feel the love but you're too distracted and tired to show it. Whatever the case, if you seek a boost to this area of your relationship email me.

Laressa Desmond, PhD, LMFT

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